October Advocate Spotlight

1. How long have you been an Advocate and when did you realize you wanted to become one?

“I have been an advocate since May 2022. I wanted to become an advocate as far back as 2012 yet we were still actively fostering and then providing Respite for the families we mentored. The day after our last family adopted their kids, I signed up for classes."

2. What is the most rewarding aspect of being an advocate?

“Being the constant in my boy's life. They have been through so much at such a young age. It is heartwarming when they squeal my name as they come in for a hug. I also enjoy that one of the foster moms will call me to reinforce positive behaviors they are displaying. Over the year I have watched all five of my kids grow and learn to trust again.”

3. If you could offer some words of encouragement to your fellow and incoming Advocates, what would they be?

“Three things: 1) Remember your job is to advocate for the children in your case. You should befriend the bio parents and encourage them to successfully complete their service plans while focusing on what is in the best interest of the children. 2) QTIP--Quit Taking It Personal. So much happens in foster care that is simply ridiculous, you can't take it personally and need to stay focused on the children. 3) Trust your CASA supervisor. They have seen and heard it all. They have your back and are an excellent sounding board and resource.”