October Advocate Spotlight

Sandra Jarzombek

Advocate: Joseph Zlotkowski

1. How long have you been an Advocate and when did you realize you wanted to become one?

“I have been an advocate since May 2022. I wanted to become an advocate as far back as 2012 yet we were still actively fostering and then providing Respite for the families we mentored. The day after our last family adopted their kids, I signed up for classes."


2. What is the most rewarding aspect of being an advocate?

“Being the constant in my boy's life. They have been through so much at such a young age. It is heartwarming when they squeal my name as they come in for a hug. I also enjoy that one of the foster moms will call me to reinforce positive behaviors they are displaying. Over the year I have watched all five of my kids grow and learn to trust again.”


3. If you could offer some words of encouragement to your fellow and incoming Advocates, what would they be?

“Three things: 1) Remember your job is to advocate for the children in your case. You should befriend the bio parents and encourage them to successfully complete their service plans while focusing on what is in the best interest of the children. 2) QTIP--Quit Taking It Personal. So much happens in foster care that is simply ridiculous, you can't take it personally and need to stay focused on the children. 3) Trust your CASA supervisor. They have seen and heard it all. They have your back and are an excellent sounding board and resource.”

By bfines January 21, 2026
In November 2025, Child Protective Services received a referral involving two sisters, ages 13 and 14, who were found caring for themselves. Following the death of their father, the girls experienced ongoing abuse and neglect. They were living in unsafe and unsanitary conditions, frequently left alone without adequate food, functioning plumbing, or consistent supervision, and were exposed to strangers regularly coming in and out of the home. Shortly after removal, Tameka Woolfolk was appointed as the Advocate on the case. From the very beginning, Tameka became one of the few consistent and reliable adults in the girls’ lives. The children experienced and continue to endure placement changes. These frequent transitions created ongoing instability and further complicated the girls’ ability to heal and adjust. Throughout each move, Tameka remained steadily involved, working diligently to ensure that the children’s services and support continued without interruption. She supports the girls not only emotionally, but physically as well helping pack their belongings at each move, accompanying them during school tours, and remaining readily available whenever they need support. Neither child was initially aware that they had the right to speak directly with the judge. Tameka recognized the importance of their voices being heard and with the support of the Ad Litem, helped to facilitate their presence at court, requesting that the judge meet with the girls in a breakout room, so they could personally express their wishes, all with the department, CASA and the Ad Litem by their side. In addition, this case was referred to Collaborative Family Engagement (CFE). During CASA’s ongoing exploration for family connections alongside the Department, Tameka discovered the children’s father’s obituary. Through this discovery, it was learned that the girls’ father had served in the United States Army as a combat medic during the Vietnam War and later worked for 30 years in civil service. Tameka took the initiative to request documentation, including VA records and a death certificate, to determine whether the children might be eligible for survivor benefits. The obituary also revealed that the girls are two of fourteen siblings. While many of the siblings were unable to provide support, CASA and the Department were able to establish contact with one brother. Through Tameka’s strong collaborative relationship with the Department and the Attorney Ad Litem, a thoughtful and appropriate plan was developed to allow the girls to begin visits with their brother, his wife, and their cousins. Although this story is still unfolding, both girls know one unwavering belief, that no matter what comes next, they know that Miss Tameka will continue to stand beside them every step of the way.
By bfines January 21, 2026
Lauren Lynes-Martinez
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