October Advocate Spotlight

Sandra Jarzombek

Advocate: Joseph Zlotkowski

1. How long have you been an Advocate and when did you realize you wanted to become one?

“I have been an advocate since May 2022. I wanted to become an advocate as far back as 2012 yet we were still actively fostering and then providing Respite for the families we mentored. The day after our last family adopted their kids, I signed up for classes."


2. What is the most rewarding aspect of being an advocate?

“Being the constant in my boy's life. They have been through so much at such a young age. It is heartwarming when they squeal my name as they come in for a hug. I also enjoy that one of the foster moms will call me to reinforce positive behaviors they are displaying. Over the year I have watched all five of my kids grow and learn to trust again.”


3. If you could offer some words of encouragement to your fellow and incoming Advocates, what would they be?

“Three things: 1) Remember your job is to advocate for the children in your case. You should befriend the bio parents and encourage them to successfully complete their service plans while focusing on what is in the best interest of the children. 2) QTIP--Quit Taking It Personal. So much happens in foster care that is simply ridiculous, you can't take it personally and need to stay focused on the children. 3) Trust your CASA supervisor. They have seen and heard it all. They have your back and are an excellent sounding board and resource.”

By bfines February 17, 2026
In December 2024, the Department requested TMC for a youth, Zoe, who was found to be homeless after both parents refused to accept parental responsibility. The mother had an extensive CPS history, and the alleged father had CPS history and a criminal history. While in care, life became challenging as Zoe made decisions that jeopardized placement; choosing to skip school, run away from placement, and get arrested for a misdemeanor charge. As a result of these behaviors, the Department placed Zoe in a facility out of state. In August 2025, Staff Advocate, Yvonne, accepted the Crossover Court Case involving Zoe. During the initial Zoom meeting between Yvonne and Zoe, the youth shared her love for sketching, singing, and making people smile. Zoe further shared her hopes and dreams with Yvonne; stating that if parental rights were terminated, she hopes to be adopted by a loving family and wants to pursue her dream of having a career in law enforcement. Recently, Yvonne had the opportunity to visit Zoe at her out-of-state placement, where their conversations were not limited by time on a video call. When Yvonne met Zoe in person, she shared that she couldn’t sleep the morning of Yvonne’s arrival because she feared that Yvonne would be another adult who did not show up for her. Yvonne was able to lay that worry to rest by simply keeping her word, a small act that means the world to the children CASA serves. During the visit, Zoe shared that she wanted to make her CASA proud by improving her school grades, staying out of trouble with peers at placement, and staying busy with extracurricular activities. Yvonne was happy to hear Zoe share her aspirations and encouraged Zoe to continue on this positive path. The conversations about Zoe’s day-to-day happenings in life led her to share the more traumatic events with Yvonne. Yvonne listened and provided a space for Zoe to share what she was comfortable with. Yvonne encouraged Zoe to continue processing her trauma and grief with her therapist and find peace, past the pain of being estranged from her family and individuals whom she trusted. Despite the setbacks Zoe has endured in efforts to restore family connections, Yvonne continues to show up and support Zoe in self-advocating for her educational and placement needs as she approaches adulthood. Zoe’s educational goal is to attend her senior prom and walk across the stage at a public high school to receive her diploma. Most importantly, Zoe hopes to be placed in a Texas foster home where she will be protected, loved, and trusted. Regardless of where life and the case takes Zoe, Yvonne will be there at every turn.
By bfines February 17, 2026
Maquisha Nunn
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