November Advocate Spotlight

Michelle Ramirez

Advocate: Joseph Zlotkowski

1. How long have you been an Advocate and when did you realize you wanted to become one?

“I believe it's going on 2 years! I've always loved kids; they have always gravitated towards me. Now that I'm getting older, I started thinking of maybe becoming a foster parent, but the only interactions with kids I had were with my nieces and nephews. I figured this would be good to really know what it's like to interact with foster children AND be a voice for them especially before I decide to become a foster parent.” 


2. What is the most rewarding aspect of being an advocate?

“The most rewarding aspect of this is knowing that these kids have someone to count on and confide in. I am truly interested in what is best for them. I remember thinking I wish I had more mentors growing up; someone who is a good role model to remind me that there is good in the world despite current tough situations. When the kids are happy, I'm happy.”


3. If you could offer some words of encouragement to your fellow and incoming Advocates, what would they be?

“You might feel nervous at first because you don't know what to expect but just you being there will already mean so much to the kids! They need kindhearted people like yourself to really listen to them, and to help express how they feel.”

By bfines November 20, 2025
During their TMC case, Nanette was assigned to two young ladies who shared a deep and loving bond with their toddler brother, who had been removed under a separate case. Recognizing that these young ladies had taken on caretaker roles for their brother, Nan wanted their visits to be safe, joyful, and centered around sibling connection rather than responsibility. Understanding the importance of preserving this relationship, Nan amplified the girls’ voices and advocated for consistent, meaningful visits while separate permanency options were being explored. She collaborated closely with the younger brother’s adoptive placement, the girls’ group home, and later their foster placement to create opportunities for the siblings to spend quality time together. When Nan was later assigned to the younger brother’s case during PMC, she was finally able to personally ensure that all three children shared visits outside of the CPS office—providing natural, family-centered experiences that strengthened their bond. Despite the children being on different permanency tracks, living in three separate placements, and facing numerous setbacks, Nan’s commitment to maintaining their connection never wavered. Eventually, the youngest child was adopted. Thanks to the strong, trusting relationship Nan had built with his adoptive family, she was able to continue arranging sibling visits even after his adoption was finalized. Nan coordinated fun, family-oriented outings where the children could enjoy time together and simply be siblings. Soon after, the middle child was also adopted. Nan ensured that all siblings were present to celebrate these important milestones in each other’s lives. She continues to organize opportunities for the siblings to connect and advocates for the oldest youth, who plans to transition out of foster care when they are older. Nan’s focus has always been on the well-being of the children. Despite challenges and complex case dynamics, she remained steadfast in ensuring that the children’s needs and wishes guided every decision. Her dedication to preserving the sibling bond demonstrates her deep understanding of how essential family connection is to achieve true permanency and emotional stability.
By bfines November 20, 2025
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