Advocate Spotlight: Andy Ulsher
August Advocate Interview
1. How long have you been an Advocate and when did you realize you wanted to become one?
I realized I was interested in becoming a CASA volunteer after listening to CASA commercials on TV and the radio. I investigated the organization further and decided it was definitely a worthwhile organization that made a huge impact on children in foster care. I attended the CASA orientation class and was sold on becoming an Advocate. I had the time to volunteer and thought my military background would be beneficial in guiding foster children. I wanted to be part of the solution and help children in need.
2. What is the most rewarding aspect of being an Advocate?
Making a difference! No doubt, making a difference in the life of my CASA kids is the most rewarding aspect of being an Advocate. Sometimes it’s just something small, but when you see you’ve made their life better, it’s very rewarding. I’ll never forget meeting a 3-year old boy (this was before COVID-19 protocols) for the first time at his caregivers. They told him a “man” was coming to visit him. From then on whenever I visited “John” he would always come running up to me calling me “the man, the man!” He was well adjusted and always ready to give me hug or hold my hand. Wow, talk about rewarding and impacting my life just as much as I did his! Thankfully, it appears he’ll be reunited with his mother soon, and hopefully continues to thrive.
I have another case with three brothers: 15, 16 and 17 years old. Recently, the oldest graduated from high school and enrolled in Texas A & M University – San Antonio. I got all three enrolled in the College Docket pilot program, and they’re doing great. Mentoring the oldest and preparing him for college was very rewarding. He just moved into the dorm this past weekend. Providing guidance and mentoring his 24-year-old brother and his wife, their caregivers, has also been rewarding. Talk about an act of kindness and generosity for a 24-year old brother, his wife and their two kids to foster three younger brothers! They live in somewhat austere conditions, but the older brother had been trying to care for his brothers for three years. The State moved them around to other relatives and finally approved him. I worked hard to get them approved as a Foster Family, and once approved, it was most rewarding. All of them are doing well and thriving.
3. If you could offer words of encouragement to your fellow and incoming Advocates, what would they be?
Start with an easier case and work your way into more complicated cases as you gain experience as an Advocate. There’s so much to learn as a new Advocate. Rely on your CASA supervisor for guidance and help. Once we get past the COVID-19 issue, reach out to other Advocates and network with them. Learn from them and their cases. Attend the monthly training and events offered by CASA. Remember you are there to “act in the best interest of the children” and that might not be what the caseworker, ad litem, caregiver or others want. Stand up for what you think it right. You get to testify before the Judge on your case and he or she values your opinion. If you’re doing your Advocacy right, you’ve most likely spent more time with the children and know them even better than their caseworker.
During their TMC case, Nanette was assigned to two young ladies who shared a deep and loving bond with their toddler brother, who had been removed under a separate case. Recognizing that these young ladies had taken on caretaker roles for their brother, Nan wanted their visits to be safe, joyful, and centered around sibling connection rather than responsibility. Understanding the importance of preserving this relationship, Nan amplified the girls’ voices and advocated for consistent, meaningful visits while separate permanency options were being explored. She collaborated closely with the younger brother’s adoptive placement, the girls’ group home, and later their foster placement to create opportunities for the siblings to spend quality time together. When Nan was later assigned to the younger brother’s case during PMC, she was finally able to personally ensure that all three children shared visits outside of the CPS office—providing natural, family-centered experiences that strengthened their bond. Despite the children being on different permanency tracks, living in three separate placements, and facing numerous setbacks, Nan’s commitment to maintaining their connection never wavered. Eventually, the youngest child was adopted. Thanks to the strong, trusting relationship Nan had built with his adoptive family, she was able to continue arranging sibling visits even after his adoption was finalized. Nan coordinated fun, family-oriented outings where the children could enjoy time together and simply be siblings. Soon after, the middle child was also adopted. Nan ensured that all siblings were present to celebrate these important milestones in each other’s lives. She continues to organize opportunities for the siblings to connect and advocates for the oldest youth, who plans to transition out of foster care when they are older. Nan’s focus has always been on the well-being of the children. Despite challenges and complex case dynamics, she remained steadfast in ensuring that the children’s needs and wishes guided every decision. Her dedication to preserving the sibling bond demonstrates her deep understanding of how essential family connection is to achieve true permanency and emotional stability.
Natalie Rodriguez
